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What if the conversation about purity began not with a list of rules—but with helping her understand who she is and WHOSE she is?
Teenage girls are surrounded by messages telling them what makes them beautiful, desirable, valuable, and worthy of love. But before a girl can confidently navigate relationships, cultural pressures, and sexual choices, she needs a foundation strong enough to withstand those competing voices.
The Identity of Purity invites teenage girls to discover that foundation in God’s truth.
More than a book about abstinence, this Scripture-centered guide explores the connection between a girl’s identity, her relationship with Christ, and the choices she makes. Girls are encouraged to look beyond outward behavior and discover how purity begins in the heart—an important theme established from the opening chapters of the book.
Through 17 chapters, girls will explore:
- What purity looks like from God’s perspective—not culture’s
- How understanding God’s love shapes identity, worth, and relationships
- Five major hurdles to purity: media, ungodly relationships and peer pressure, sexual temptation, drugs and alcohol, and pride
- Biblical wisdom for friendships, dating, servanthood, marriage, sexual purity, and modesty
- God’s design for womanhood and the greater purpose behind a life of purity
The book ultimately brings girls back to a powerful truth: understanding WHO you are begins with understanding WHOSE you are.
Perfect for individual reading, mother-daughter conversations, girls’ discipleship groups, youth groups, and small-group studies. Younger girls can also walk through the book alongside Mom, allowing her to guide more mature conversations at an age-appropriate level.
The Identity of Purity isn’t simply about teaching a girl what to say no to. It’s about helping her know God, understand His design, recognize her value through Him, and develop biblical convictions that prepare her to say yes to the life He created her to live.
如果关于“纯洁”的教导，不是从一连串“可以做什么、不可以做什么”的规条开始，而是先帮助女孩认识：我是谁？我属于谁？
今天的青少女每天都面对来自社会和文化的各种声音，告诉她们什么才算美丽、有吸引力、有价值、值得被爱。然而，在女孩能够有智慧地面对人际关系、文化压力以及有关性与身体的选择之前，她们需要一个坚固的根基，帮助她们不被这些声音左右。
The Identity of Purity 引导青少女从神的真理中建立这个根基。
这不只是一本教导“婚前禁欲”的书，而是一本以圣经为中心的成长指南，帮助女孩认识自己的身份、与基督的关系，以及这些真理如何影响她们所作的选择。作者强调，真正的纯洁不只是外在行为，而是从内心以及与神的关系开始。
全书共 17 章，内容包括：
- 从神的眼光而不是世俗文化来认识纯洁
- 明白The Love of God如何塑造我们的身份、价值感和人际关系
- 面对追求纯洁生活的五大挑战：媒体、不合神心意的人际关系与同伴压力、性的诱惑、毒品与酒精，以及骄傲
- 从圣经学习有关友谊、恋爱、服事、婚姻、性方面的纯洁以及端庄衣着的智慧
- 认识神对女性的设计，以及追求纯洁生活背后更深远的意义
本书最终将女孩带回一个非常重要的真理：
要真正明白“我是谁（WHO I am）”，首先要明白“我属于谁（WHOSE I am）”。
本书适合青少女个人阅读、母女一起阅读讨论、女孩门徒训练、青少年团契及小组学习。年龄较小的女孩也可以在妈妈陪伴下阅读，由妈妈按照孩子的年龄和成熟程度，引导她们讨论较深入的话题。
The Identity of Purity 不只是教女孩应该对哪些事情说 “不”，更重要的是帮助她们认识神、明白祂的设计、从神里面认识自己的价值，并建立合乎圣经的信念，使她们能够对神为她们预备的生命勇敢地说 “是”。